Before I met my wife, I was a bit of a player - as I write that, I have no idea if the word "player" is still the word for a guy who got laid - which is to say I got laid a lot. No relationships. No commitment. Just fun. I loved women and one thing I did differently than most men who couldn't get out of their own way, much less into her secret garden, was practice the art of kindness. Tell a woman … [Read more...]